Woman is God’s most beautiful and unique creation and a fitting counterpart to man. Thus, a natural attraction towards feminine beauty is innate in every man. In course of time and in a congenial setting that attraction might blossom into what is called love.
However, there are some attributes that men seem to desire deeply in their lady love, their girlfriends, but not in their wives. These are:
1. Sense of Style - Guys have innumerable expectations from their girlfriends. A young guy is warm blooded and fantasizes a lot, hoping to have a girlfriend who will be as hot as his favorite actress. In other words, he is then a denizen of a dream land with his feet not rooted to the real world, wishing for his girlfriend to look smart and sexy so that her looks can win him approval from his friends and peers.
2. Having an Opinion - Apart from having a sexy girlfriend who would flaunt her best assets without hesitation, another attribute that guy’s look for in their girlfriends is the boldness to be able to speak up her mind. They prefer their girlfriends to be able to discuss sexual topics explicitly and raise their opinion in all matters, which makes the woman come across as worldly, sophisticated and broad minded.
3. Skilled at Seduction – Most guys like girlfriends who are skilled in the feminine art of seducing. Without a single touch they can win a man’s heart by their flirtatious charms and are masters at the art of seducing. They’ll talk sexy; go on dates flirting with their boyfriend until he’s under the spell of their love.
4. Adventurousness – A young man thrives on adventure, an attribute he looks for in his female partner as well. An adventurousness girlfriend who is spirited enough and somewhat reckless in nature to try out new things and adventures each new day is highly coveted.
5. Independence – A man loves for his girlfriend to be independent and outgoing. He flaunts his smart, sexy and successful girlfriend with pride, revealing in her personal success. Most men dream of having a girlfriend who is outspoken and independent, capable of making her own decisions without the slightest bit of hesitation, so that she is the most sought after woman in any room she walks in to.
Change of Need with the passing years
As time rolls on guys become ‘men’ and acquire the experience and maturity of a man. Their way of visualizing life changes and so changes their needs. The journey from boyhood to manhood implies that many years have swished past and it’s time for them to settle down by getting into a serious long-term relationship through marriage which is considered as a holy wedlock, and of course a social institution. However, once the knot is tied through a marriage ceremony, the same man changes his opinions on what attributes his wife should possess, and more often than not, these are not the same attributes he looked for in a girlfriend.
Guys don’t want their wives to have the above attributes: Learn Why
The reason behind this double standard in men could be a result of certain societal restrictions in India, which is why a perfect girlfriend cannot make a perfect wife. While a husband desires his wife to be beautiful, a woman who dresses smartly and likes to be independent is not considered to be a suitable wife. High maintenance wives are not at all desirable by men because it is too difficult to afford such wives. Flirtatious wives with great seducing power can make husbands insecure and a reckless, adventure-loving wife can jeopardize the entire conjugal life. She’ll chase adventure, splurge money on it and cannot make a good wife. Wives who discuss sex explicitly are disliked by some men as this can hurt their male ego. They prefer coy, shy wives on bed. And a married woman who is too independent in nature is often assumed to stray easily, chasing after her dreams, even at the cost of her family life.
The point is that there are some women whom men like to introduce to their parents as ‘wife-material’, while there are some whom they think worthy only of courting. So the question then does not remain the infamous “What do women really want?” it is “What do men really expect from women?”
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