5 simple ways to understand a woman
As a man, how many times have you thought “I just cannot understand what women want!”
A woman forever is an ocean of mystery for a man and the feminine mystery is what challenges a man and at the same time draws him towards her. Isn’t that true? Rabindranath Tagore, the world famous poet and Noble Laureate has described Women as ‘Partial Imagination’. The famous painting of Mona Lisa by Leonardo da Vinci with her typical enigmatic smile is perhaps emblematic of the great enigma that characterizes the nature of the entire women race; something poor men find so very difficult to decode!
But if you know the basic tips and secrets of understanding a woman and her mind, you’ll realize that it’s not that difficult actually. Learning more on how and what makes women across the globe such a mystery can be a win-win situation for you, not to mention for the woman in your life.
Women: What makes her such a mystery?
Women, since time immemorial, have been considered the biggest mystery by the men in the world. It could be because they have failed to perceive the deep emotions of love and affection lying underneath the calm and cold exterior that sometimes women built around themselves for their own self-defence. The truth is that women are thoroughly emotional creatures... they are clouded by their hearts and their entire thought process is guided by emotions and their fluctuating moods.
Neurologically, a woman’s brain is structured in such a way that she has multiple deeper layers of psyche and thinks much more deeply and complexly than her male counterparts. Men on the other hand are practical; most will not allow emotions to take over their actions, are very rational, judge matters using their brains rather than their hearts, quite unlike women. This is why often they fail to understand woman and find many of her approaches quite mysterious.
5 simple ways for understanding a woman
Now you might think that you have more chances of solving the mystery of the Bermuda Triangle than to ever understanding a woman, but that’s where you are wrong! There is a way to decode this secret, at least! With these tips & tactics, you can easily delve deep into your ladies’ mind and capture her heart completely.
1. Give your woman space
Your woman should not feel claustrophobic in her relationship with you. She should have enough time for herself; i.e. her own leisure hours, quiet time, working space and so on. It is then that you’ll get to know her more. Her real self, her hidden traits and talents will emerge to the fore. If you are over possessive and clingy or too controlling in your nature, you will never see the ‘real’ side of her emerge in the relationship.
2. Allow her to explore her own potential
When allowed to explore her potential freely, a woman doesn’t feel caged. If she has the freedom to make her own choices without being coerced by you, it will by default bring out the best in her and stir up her womanly softness, love and care for her near and dear ones because she is after all a very emotional being.
3. Respect her individuality
Every woman is unique and has in her some special traits. As her man, you need to salute your woman’s individuality to win her heart. Don’t commit the blunder of generalizing, or of comparing her to someone else because no one likes that!
4. Never objectify your woman
Your woman has more to her than just her looks. She has a brain that thinks, a heart that feels, a soul that dreams. Don’t think of her to be your possession or property. If you, her ‘man’ will objectify her, what can she expect from the rest of the world? Men are not objectified for their virility, so why should women?
5. Women like to be appreciated
Like all of us, women too like to be appreciated for the small things they do. It could be something as simple as a great meal, your laundry done on time or a special effort she made to finish a task you didn’t expect. Appreciate her for her kindness and thoughtfulness, and you will find that her ‘mood-swings’ are part of history!
So there – the world’s biggest secret has now been revealed! Hope you have started to gain a better understanding of a woman.... keep these things in mind and she’ll gradually emerge before you as a kind of woman you believed did not exist; i.e. the woman of your dreams or the perfect lady in every aspect!
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